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Kassi Martin
You Can Come Out Now!
An 18-Day Inner Child Journey Begins 1 January
Like most of us, there is a part of you who learned very early how to survive love.
You learned when to be quiet.
When to grow up.
When not to need too much.
When to adapt, perform, soften, harden, or disappear just enough to keep connection intact.
You didn't do this because you were weak. You did it because you are intelligent.
Before language, before choice, the body learns one thing very clearly: belonging keeps us alive.
And so we adjust. We become capable. Responsible. Impressive. We hold things together. We grow strong.
And somewhere along the way, a softer, truer part of us steps back.
Not lost. Not broken. Just waiting.
Waiting for the moment when it might finally be safe to be met.
This January, inside Planet Kas, I'm opening an 18-day guided inner child journey called "You Can Come Out Now"
This is not about fixing your childhood or your inner child. It's not about analysing the past. It's not about reliving stories you already know.
It's about relationship. About learning how to stop abandoning yourself now.
Many women believe inner child work means going backwards. This journey doesn't ask you to regress or relive. It asks you to come closer — from the adult you are today — and learn how to stay.
To stay when things are quiet.
To stay when grief appears.
To stay when anger, resistance, or numbness arises.
To stay without asking anything in return.
This work is slow, creative, body-led, and relational.
It uses writing, art-making, non-dominant hand dialogue, and deep listening — not as techniques to "get somewhere", but as ways of building trust with the part of you that once had to adapt in order to be loved.
What will you need to participate? Very little... a pen and a notebook at the very least. If you like using crayons or colourful pens in a journal, great, bring that.
Over 18 days, we gently move through themes such as:
how and why you learned to survive love
creating safety before asking for contact
speaking without demand
listening through the body rather than the mind
staying when anger, fear, or absence shows up
honouring the grief of growing up too soon
learning how to return when you notice you've left yourself
This is not a challenge.
There is nothing to keep up with.
There is no right way to do it.
And I am always present in our group if you would like to share, reflect, receive love, care, wisdom...
Some days you may feel tenderness.
Some days you may feel resistance.
Some days you may feel nothing at all.
All of that is human and very welcome.
And you don't HAVE to keep up with the daily prompts, you can work through at your own pace... take a whole month.
The only thing that matters is that you don't force yourself — and that you return when you notice you've gone.
This journey begins on 1 January, not because it's a new year and you should reinvent yourself, but because it's a quiet threshold. A moment where many women feel the weight of another year ahead and wonder if they can keep doing life the same way.
You don't heal a whole childhood in 18 days. But you can begin to teach your system something new:
that you will not rush yourself anymore
that you will not demand performance for love
that you are willing to stay with yourself
"You Can Come Out Now" lives inside Planet Kas, alongside a rich library of depth work, somatic practices, creative therapy processes, and a small community of women who are also learning how to inhabit themselves again.
You can join at any point.
You can move at your own pace.
You can revisit the work again and again.
You can simply join for January only and then leave if you wish. You will only pay for that one month which is considerably less than the cost of this course as a standalone.
This journey is also the foundation for what follows — including Goddess Unleashed — where power, voice, sovereignty, desire, and creative life force are explored without abandoning tenderness, if you choose to stay inside.
It is always your choice. There is no pressure — and while you are here, you will receive as much love and support from me, Kas, as you choose for yourself.
and yes... if you would rather do it alone, self paced and not share or join in the group, that is also ok. You get to choose... always.
You do not need to be "ready".
You do not need to be healed.
You do not need to know what will happen.
If something in you feels quietly recognised by these words, trust that.
There is a part of you who has been waiting a long time not to be fixed — but to be met.
You Can Come Out Now begins in four days time - and YOU are welcome.
And you don't have to do it alone unless you prefer that.
For just £49 you get immediate to access to my entire Library too!
Here's the all important link and if you choose to leave before February, you just need to unsubscribe. No chains, no pressures, no obligation just a lot of love and wisdom and support. Click on Link --> YOU CAN COME OUT NOW
Love,
Kas
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