I've Been Good All My Life! Now What?

hello!

Do you ever hear yourself say: "I've Spent My Whole Life Being Good — Now What???"

There comes a moment — maybe at 42, or 56, or 73 — where you sit in your quiet kitchen, or on the edge of your bed, and you think:

"I did everything I was supposed to do. I was good. I was kind. I held the family together.  I showed up and I smiled when I wanted to scream at the endless, everyday... disappointing.... monotony of life.

I carried the load no one else saw.  I didn't drop the balls.  I bent myself into a thousand versions of who they needed me to be…  So why do I feel so fucking lost?"

If you're reading this and your throat is tight or your tummy is in knots, I want you to know — you're not broken and you are not alone.

You're not failing.

You are just arriving at the edge of your old life.  And that ache you're feeling?  That's your soul asking you to listen to her.

You've spent decades being a mother, a wife, a carer, a professional, the fixer, the giver, the good one.

You were the strong one when no one else was.  You picked up the slack. You swallowed your needs.

You put your own desires in the cupboard with the good china.
And now? Now there's this wild energy inside of you. 

Maybe feels like a blend of anger, excitement, want and need...
and it's all about you and YOUR one precious life.

Something stirring.  Something sacred.  Something rebellious.


Maybe you don't want to sleep with your husband anymore and you're ashamed or afraid to say it.
Maybe you look at your life and wonder if it was ever really yours.
Maybe your body is changing and you don't feel sexy or seen.
Maybe you've been so busy caring for everyone else that you've forgotten what your own voice sounds like.

And maybe — just maybe — you're ready for something else.  new.  different...

Not more busyness. 

Not another 10-step program or another round of trying to be better, thinner, fitter, fulfilling goals or being grateful.

You are ready for More space.  Just For You...

Connection with like-minded women just like you...

Tenderness.
Truth and honesty.
No fake smiles or stories.

A place to fall apart and come back together.

That's what I built Planet Kas for.  Not as a course. Not as a product. But as a place to finally be with yourself.  A place where no one tells you to smile when you do not want to fucking smile.

A place where you can be how you feel, where frustration and rage is welcome because it's how you are that day.  Where your sensuality is sacred.  

Where your grief is honoured.

Yes! There's grief.  So much grief...!  You're a woman in a world that's been driven by patriarchy for centuries. How could there not be grief dear heart?  And I completely understand about this, deeply.  Your life was never your own.  Ever... it's all been about the machine... the system... and I bring YOUR attention back to YOU.

A place where you don't have to be 'good' — you just get to be You and loved for being YOU.

So if you're sitting there wondering Now what?
Here's my answer:
Now, you come home to yourself.
Now, you stop shrinking.
Now, you get your life back — not the one they told you to live but the one that's been burning quietly inside you for years.

You don't need to fix yourself.
You don't need to do more.
You just need to be held in a space where all of you is welcome.

That's Planet Kas.

Here's what Stephanie says:  "I've loved all the work I've done in Goddess Unleashed, Let Yourself Be Loved, and all the other classes Kas has. Now, even better, I can access all of them from one place in Planet Kas. I never have to wonder where to access the content I need at the exact moment I need it. There is something relevant to every single thing I need to work on in her material. The way Kas shares her personal experiences and encourages us to do things in ways that make sense to us is phenomenal! You get all you need to address your own personal issues in your own life. There is no one way to do things. And you can't get a more supportive person to help you along the way on your journey!"

And you are so welcome in here too. 

You could never be bored or lonely - that's for sure - and you get me too... Inside, in my group, where you can come in and share what you have been engaging in (I have a MASSIVE Library you can choose from), or just share how you are, how life is... you can.

Come on in and feel how gorgeous it is to be held in love, care and have someone be interested in you, in your life... in your hopes and dreams - and you know...  I am REALLY good at all of this... I have 27 years experience of caring about women and their lives.

This is all there for you... if you want resurrected, I am here, for YOU... all you have to do is join and you will be inside immediately!

Come on in!  Please stop wasting your life!

love
Kas

PS:  Inside you get my entire Creative Therapy package from 2016 onwards...  My Sacred Heart...  Held In Love Burn Out Recovery...  Grief & Loss Course...  Goddess Unleashed...  Honouring Our Yoni...  The Cosmic Come... 

and you get access to Me and THAT is impossible to put a price on... having me available to you... like just being able to stick your head round my office door and run something past me... priceless!  I have 27 years experience as a Counsellor, Psychotherapist, Transformative Coach, Mentor, Trainer and Supervisor... when I got to 23000 hours of practice I just stopped counting...  

COME ON!!! WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!!!

and my new book for adult Women who are 'done' - is available on Amazon:  Perfectly Coiffed Pubes by Kassi Martin

Here's feedback for my book:  "hello lovely Kas, thank you! I am here to say I've started your book.  To say it's 'bloody brilliant' doesn't quite cut it - borderline genius perhaps! LOVE the short lines! Full of impact!  Defo suits my reading style.  Feeling a whole range of emotions!  OOft!  It's speaking volumes.  Reading just before bed for the past 2 nights and journaling.  VERY vivid dreams.  I'm truly in awe of your insights.  My jaw keeps dropping!  It has landed in my lap at the perfect time and I will gain a lot of strength from your words <3 I just had to let you know how I was feeling <3 truly grateful"

It also makes a wonderful gift for friends who cannot understand why they are everybody's punchbag!